Tuesday, November 24, 2015

Speaking Without Talking

Most of our communication is done through the use of body language. Many believe that more than 80% of it is done non-verbally. There are many ways in which cultures around the world use body language in order to communicate. Many may be unfamiliar or even rare to our culture, but it is important to understand each and every one of them. The following are unique ways in which cultures around the world communicate:

The Tibetan Tongue Sticking:
Yes, sticking your tongue out to someone in the region of Tibet shows a sign of respect. The origin ir believed to have derived from the Tibetan King, Lang Darma, known for his cruelty and black tongue. People fear that he may reincarnate and Tibetans greet one another by sticking out their tongues demonstrating that they do not have black tongues. 


Touching Feet in India:
This is still very common amongst cultures in India to touch the feet of elders and teachers a sign of respect. It is more like a sacred greeting in Hindus and in a way seek their blessings in return. In return, elders place their hand on their head or back of the blessing seeker. 

Yes and No in Greece:
In the United States, as well as in the majority of the countries, shaking your head from left to right means no and up and down means yes. In Greece they mean "yes" by tilting their head first to the left and then the right. When they mean "no" they tilt the head up and back. Other countries with similar tactics include: Bulgaria, Albania, Saudi Arabia and Iran. 
Eye Contact in Middle East:
In many Middle-Eastern cultures, intense eye contact between same genders is often a sign of trust and sincerity. This is not the case with opposing genders. Eye contact between different genders, anything more than a brief eye-contact is considered inappropriate. 

Pointing in Asia:
In the western world, we often point at things to help explain a point. However in many Asian countries, especially China, pointing with the forefinger is considered rude. An alternative way is to gesticulate towards the "point of interest" with an open palm that faces upwards. 


In case you are traveling any time soon, check out these websites! It is important to know what is acceptable, non-acceptable and required before landing in a foreign country. Nonverbal Communication Across Different Cultures and Cross Cultural Communication Tips

Tuesday, November 10, 2015

Words With A Voice of Their Own

Quotes serve as a "fillers" when you run out of things to say to yourself. When we need quick advice from someone,we lean on their words for comfort. The authors of these quotes are often people we look up to, or have gone through certain experiences in their lives and professions. These words serve as a motivator to keep on going, and a constant reminder to do what's best for us. The next five quotes are my guide to become the best possible me:

 People tend to base their decisions on money, power and success instead of desire. It is important to put aside what doesn't make you happy, and instead, rely on things that truly keep you engaged and motivated. Once you choose something that you are passionate about, the work will come easily to you. 

This quote, serves as a reminder that times will come when I'll have to do the hard things, or the things that no one else wants to do. The things that make me wonder how much longer I can hold on too, are what define me. Practice and patience will build the path to to my finish line. 

Frida Kahlo suffered from an injury that prevented her from ever walking right again and having children of her own. Never the less, this never became an obstacle in her artistic career. When ever I feel limited or incapable of doing something, I remember that there is nothing in life that can stop me, not even myself.
There are times in my life when I deprive myself from others opinions. It is important to hear every side of a situation and allow for others to get the chance to speak up. In the long run, one can learn amazing things from others by just listening.
There are many times when I feel an insecurity to be different, and prefer to give into the conformities of blending in. Anna Wintour's quote gives me the courage to accept myself for who I am, regardless of what I look or stand for. In our society, it is important to preserve our individuality and desire to be bold.    

Who knows, maybe one day I could also have my quotes embedded on my picture.

For more quotes visit Lifehack and Forbes.